there are people who care about money and nothing but money. and there are people who don’t (for example, family first).
if you’re a person who doesn’t care about money (as a priority), but chasing people who do, you’re kinda bringing the bullshit to yourself, and vice versa.
everyone should stay in their lane and date people who share similar interests, values, and morals, and they’d avoid a lot of bullshit.
if people cared more about compatibility and building actual friendships w/in their relationships rather than just having someone, ANYONE on their arm to avoid looking lonely…again….there’d be less bullshit and more happiness.